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Drug and Alcohol
Abuse Intervention
A drug abuser usually does
not know he is out of control. He looks at his drug-using peers and his own
use appears normal in comparison. He needs objective feedback on his behavior.
It
was once thought that alcohol and drug abusers had to "hit bottom"
before help could be offered and accepted. This is based on the idea that a
drug abuser could only get better if he was self-motivated to change. This view
has changed to the idea that a skilled professional (counselor) can motivate
an abusers toward recovery. This is called intervention.
Drug abuse intervention
is a process that helps an abuser recognize the extent of his problem. Through
a non-judgmental, non-critical, systematic process, the drug addict is confronted
with the impact of his alcohol or drug use on others. The goal of drug abuse
intervention is for him to accept the reality of his drug abuse and to seek
help.
Q)
If an abuser is unwilling to seek help, is there any way to get him into
treatment?
A) This can be a
challenging situation. An abuser cannot be forced to get help except under certain
circumstances, such as when a violent incident results in police being called
or following a medical emergency. This doesnt mean, however, that you
have to wait for a crisis to make an impact. Based on clinical experience, many
treatment specialists recommend the following steps to help an addict accept
treatment.
The Steps
of Drug Addiction Intervention
1.
Stop all rescue missions. Family members often try to protect an
abuser from the results of his behavior by making excuses to others about his
abuse problem and by getting him out of drug-related jams. It is important to
stop all such rescue attempts immediately, so that the addict will fully experience
the harmful effects of his use. The addict will thereby become more motivated
to stop.
2.
Dont enable him. Sometimes family members feel sorry for the addict or
tend to avoid the abuser and let him come and go as he pleases. This comes across
to the abuser as a reward, after all, all he wants is to be left alone. Be careful
not to reward by paying his bills, bailing him out of jail, letting him stay
for free, etc. This kind of reward creates a one way exchange in favor of the
addict and encourages criminal behavior.
3.
Time your drug abuse intervention. If possible, plan to talk with the addict
when he is straight. Find a time when all of you are in a calm frame of mind
and when you can speak privately.
4. Be specific. Tell the
family member that you are concerned about his drug or alcohol abuse and
want to be supportive in getting help. Back up your concern with examples of
the ways in which his drug abuse has caused problems for you, including any recent
incidents.
5.
State the consequences. Tell the family member that until he gets help, you
will carry out consequences. This is not intended to punish the drug abuser,
but to protect yourself from the harmful effects of the abuse. These may range
from refusing to be with the person when they are under the influence, to having
them move out of the house. DO NOT make any threats you are not prepared to
carry out. The basic intention is to make the abusers life more uncomfortable
if he continues using drugs than it would be for him to get help.
6.
Find strength in numbers with the help of family members, relatives, and friends
to confront the abuser as a group. Choose one person to be the initial spokesperson.
It will be much more effective for the others to simply be there nodding their
heads, than it would be for everyone to talk at once and gang up on him.
Remember the idea is to make it safe for him to come clean and seek help.
7.
Listen. If during your drug abuse intervention the abuser begins asking questions
like; Where would I have to go? For how long? This is a sign that he is reaching
for help. Do not directly answer these questions. Instead have him call in to
talk to a professional. Support him. Dont wait. Once youve gotten
his agreement, get him admitted immediately. Therefore, you should have a bag
packed for him, any travel arrangements made, and prior acceptance into a program.
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